
How can you break this skill down?
First, it is important to concretely clarify what networking means, what it “looks like”, and why it is sometimes necessary.
Secondly, work with the student to identify who might be in the student’s network. This will involve the use of a visual support (graphic organizer) to assist you and the student in developing and organizing this list.
Develop a concrete plan (using a to-do list, graphic organizer, and/or visual instructions) for how and when each person within the student’s network will be contacted. The contact method should be primarily determined by the student’s strengths and needs. Even if the person in his network is right next door to him, if he is most comfortable and competent with online exchanges (and he has that person’s email address), this is the appropriate method to use.
Within the context of role-play opportunities (supported by visual scripts, graphic organizers, video scenarios, video models, and/or reminder cues), guide the student in practicing making contact with the identified person.
1. Devise repeated opportunities to practice making contact via email or online networking site. This involves practicing crafting messages to intended recipients. This also involves practice in proofreading messages to intended recipients. You might use a basic structure (presented in a concrete template or graphic organizer) and sentence “formula” as you teach networking via email:
Include appropriate subject line such as “Potential job opportunities.”
“Dear Mr./Mrs./Dr. ________________”
1 sentence: Indicate the type of job you are looking for or the field that you are interested in.
1-2 sentences: Indicate any educational or work/volunteer/extracurricular experience you have in this field; if no experience, indicate why this field interests you.
1 sentence: Ask if this person might know of anyone who is hiring in this field, or if this person might be able to connect you with someone who might know.
1 sentence: State that you have also attached your resume for this person to pass on to anyone they might know.
1 sentence: Express appreciation for any assistance the person might be able to provide.
“Sincerely, first and last name”
This also involves identifying concrete “rules” for most students regarding if and when to follow up on the first email, and emphasizing the why behind these rules. For instance, the visually depicted “rule” might be: If the person has not responded to your first email, send one more (same structure as original) after seven days. If no response to second email, send no more messages to this person.
2. Within the context of role-play, video scenarios, and live practice with familiar, understanding people on the phone who will also be within the student’s network, guide the student in rehearsing what to say and how to say it during phone exchanges. Initially, you might use the basic structure below:
As the student shows increasing competence with this basic interaction “formula”, begin to target responses to increasingly complex variations: The person says that they don’t know of anyone; the person says let me think about it and get back to you; the person says give me a few days and then call me back; the person asks you questions about your availability, your work or volunteer experience, etc.
Use a similar structure as the one identified above to script out and rehearse leaving a voicemail message:
This also involves identifying concrete “rules” for most students regarding if and when to follow up on the first phone call, and emphasizing the why behind these rules. For instance, the visually depicted “rule” might be: If the person has not responded to your first voicemail, make one more phone call (same structure as original) after seven days. If no response to second voicemail, make no more calls to this person.
Consider all of the non-verbal behaviors that accompany these verbal behaviors (e.g. eye contact approximation, appropriate physical proxity, directing body towards the person, smiling, etc.). As the student performs the basic scripted statements, systematically target the non-verbal behaviors that would accompany those scripted statements.
As the student shows increasing competence with this basic interaction “formula”, begin to target responses to increasingly complex variations: The person says that they don’t know of anyone; the person says let me think about it and get back to you; the person asks you questions about your availability, your work or volunteer experience; the person introduces you to someone who you don’t know right there on the spot, etc.
What sub-skill should you target first for the student to initiate? Given what the student can do presently, how will you present the task so that the student can perform steps within his capacity while learning a new step?
It is likely that the best place to start with many students is identifying who is in their networks. Using clear, concrete structure around these concepts can help the student understand the benefits of networking by seeing their own web develop. Use thought maps or social-relationship organizers to help the student identify people who make up his network: friends, family, classmates, acquaintances, previous supervisors, club leaders, instructors, etc. The student may experience anxiety around this topic if he feels he does not have a strong network or does not understand who is a part of it, so laying out this information early and concretely will be important.